tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13503726.post1277865885664761659..comments2023-10-24T22:49:10.673+10:30Comments on Pandamoanium: Post-Stalker QuandryAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02380190236086336023noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13503726.post-11175860179857364582012-01-30T15:59:27.720+10:302012-01-30T15:59:27.720+10:30I have someone who subscribes to my blog that used...I have someone who subscribes to my blog that used to be a friend. Turned out she was the kind of person you would rather gouge out your own eyes than spend time with and couldn't tell the truth if her life depended on it. She also continues to make snide comments in mutual groups about myself and my friends. I don't let her influence what I post in my blog because I see that as her 'winning'.<br />I love reading your blog and love your raw honesty so please don't stop writing :)Tegan Churchillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13437605496110028625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13503726.post-34128006219560214562012-01-29T15:24:06.795+10:302012-01-29T15:24:06.795+10:30I didn't know what to say, so I didn't com...I didn't know what to say, so I didn't comment earlier. I like what Being Me wrote, I guess you just have to be really brave and not to let the thought of her out there reading hurt you or your family.Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06902911922952429223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13503726.post-12622518911997905662012-01-27T23:10:13.723+10:302012-01-27T23:10:13.723+10:30I love the idea of "hiding out in the open&qu...I love the idea of "hiding out in the open". Did they still stalk you?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02380190236086336023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13503726.post-59440201700219235092012-01-27T22:07:11.579+10:302012-01-27T22:07:11.579+10:30sorry, I worded that rather awkwardly - cos I mean...sorry, I worded that rather awkwardly - cos I meant to say my current blog was started because my old blog (at the time it was about 2-3yrs 'old') was being stalked. So I moved. Thinking a change of address would at least let me know if they were serious about finding me. Then I decided.... fk it! What have I got to hide? (this could be different for you, not knowing your story I can imagine any number of reasons to protect certain details or areas of your life) And anyway, that's why my blog is on its own .com which is my full name. In a way, it's a bit of a salute to the people I once tried to run away from! If they want to know everything about me so much (instead of just calling and asking) then I'll make it easy. Kinda like hiding out in the open? ;-) I feel free. I hope one day you do too xx<br /><br />That is all. Sorry for being long!Being Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08600427311498297800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13503726.post-64865135312649408972012-01-27T22:04:09.534+10:302012-01-27T22:04:09.534+10:30Ugh. I feel for you deeply. I have had this happen...Ugh. I feel for you deeply. I have had this happen to me. My current blog (now in its 5th year! omg) was started because I needed to escape family stalkers who wouldn't let up reading. Under-the-radar crazy-psycho ones! Funny. Accurate description, that one! x<br /><br />Just a suggestion, but did you know Wordpress has an option for you to password protect individual posts?? I did not know that until I looked into WP a couple of years back. It is the ONE feature I'd love and would move across from Blogger to WP just to have. Imagine it.......... Good luck, whatever you decide.Being Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08600427311498297800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13503726.post-2554816932113058162012-01-27T21:17:41.900+10:302012-01-27T21:17:41.900+10:30indeed. there's got to be some way to make it ...indeed. there's got to be some way to make it a protected thing lady. or could we change the name/link making it hard to find? 'the family' can sod off and mind their own freakn p's and q's buster.<br />love ya face. xjet xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16526332436659748623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13503726.post-12087153792071941602012-01-27T14:12:09.211+10:302012-01-27T14:12:09.211+10:30I agree, password protect.
New visitors have to c...I agree, password protect.<br /><br />New visitors have to come via references. It will massively slow down your traffic and comments, but you will still have readers and still have a bubble of freedom within which you can express yourself.Eccentricesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15350166822047688150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13503726.post-9088002859845108832012-01-27T13:26:16.490+10:302012-01-27T13:26:16.490+10:30NFI but that bites man! I don't want you to s...NFI but that bites man! I don't want you to stop writing because you do it so well, I can feel your words and I want to see you start feeling better , can you password protect your blog and then people have to subscribe to it? I dunno how that would work cos I guess anyone could and that also defeats the purpose of those who could potentially benefit from your blog not being able to read it. Just thinking out loud.<br />Wish I had your way with words :-/<br />The DucksterAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com